Bringing Love and Respect into your Marriage

Human beings need love. This is a well-known fact. It may seem as if women need love more than men do, but this is not true. Men also need love, but they tend to value the respect of the woman they love more. Below are a few suggestions on how to bring love and respect into your marriage.

Pay attention to your wife.
Women love attention! Talk to her, make her feel valued. Wives need to be spoken to regularly to feel loved. It is not so much the content that matters as the quality time spent talking with her.

Ask him what he thinks.
Don’t assume that his opinions don’t matter to you. Men feel respected when you ask them for their opinion. This will make him feel like he is a part of your life.

Plan date nights with your wife.
Do make the effort to plan dates with your wife. She spends a great deal of her time away from you, doing things for other people, be it at work or in the home. Therefore, when you and your wife have some us time together, it will make her feel valued, respected and loved. Go to cinema, eat out, go to park together…basically have fun.

Speak to him with respect.
Always use a loving tone with your husband, no matter how irritated you may be. Men are hurt by disrespectful and contemptuous tones of voice. Moreover, never, ever insult your husband.

Exchange Gifts
Don’t wait till Valentine, Birthdays, Christmas to exchange gifts. Buy little gifts for each other every now and then. It could be a scarf for her, could be a belt for him. Little gifts shows you are constantly thinking of your spouse.

Love and respect are two sides of the same coin. The one cannot be separated from the other. Treat your spouse with love and respect and watch your marriage blossom.

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xoxo,
Lush