Woman in Trouble!

This email came into my inbox this afternoon. It broke my heart.

Dear Lush,
This isn't a love story. Its a story of a woman in problem.

I'm xxxx. Please I'd like to be anonymous. I'm 36 years and I've been for 9 years. My husband and I got met in university and we got married after NYSC. It was a lovely day. Things went sore in my marriage when my husband started making money. He got a job in a very big oil company about 4 years ago in PH and we had to move to PH leaving all our family members. He promised to take care of me and our two sons in PH because I had to resign my Job as AM in a one of Nigeria's oldest bank.

1st year of us moving to PH was great, though I couldn't get a job but I started a buying and selling business but it was going very well. My husband would insult me so much for not investing wisely.

Now, I'm on the verge of divorcing him and moving back to Lagos. I've closed down my business. Issue is that I can't leave my boys and he says I can't go with the boys. He insults me too much. He keeps late night, says he's hanging out with his mate or working late.

What do i do? Do i leave my boys with him? Do i fight for custody? I don't have money!  Please help me! 

My response to her: 

My advice is to stay in your marriage, try your best to get&nsbp;a job and contribute towards little things in the house. I guess your hubby probably got tired of been the only provider. You didn't state if he was the one that financed the business of you. If he was the one, he might be thinking you didn't invest properly because you didn't work for the money. I'm sorry you feel this way. Do let me know how it goes. 

 

Any advice for this lady? please comment below. Thanks